You know, I feel much better today now. But my mom’s Boyfriend is being a shitty person.
My mom had gotten pissed at me yesterday for not Vacuuming for the past couple of weeks? And demanded I vacuum everyday, and then how I “Never do anything but sit on my ass” when that’s not true, Cause I tend to unload and reload the dishwasher, feed and water the dogs, take out the trash, and things they’ll ASK me to do. So I did all that, plus vacuum, she got home and we talked about it. I never ONCE complained when I do these tasks.
She wasn’t pissed at ME, she was pissed at her boyfriend. An outside source had pissed him off and THAT’S when he decided to say “Your daughter doesn’t do anything here, she didn’t even vacuumed like we asked. And grabbed the vacuum and began to do it instead of asking me to do it. He was being childish so to speak. Well, He has a son who stayed the night? He had asked him to make his bed, he didn’t, so what’s he do? Makes his bed for him. and that’s when my mom called him out.
Whenever his son comes over? He won’t even keep the door to his room open when his GIRLFRIEND is here. Or if he’s asked to help with the house, he makes up an excuse or says he’s not feeling well and goes home. He is also flunking 4-5 of his classes, but he doesn’t get any shit for this, and all he does is drive around all day with the car his dad fixed for hi. He won’t even text his dad, when this man told my mom the few times I forgot to text her? Was that I needed my computer taken from me.
His daughter, when she lived here, never lifted a finger to help clean either. She hoarded dishes in her room downstairs where I am now (She has her own place with her Fiance). And My mom’s boyfriend? Only cleans when HE has company coming over or whenever HE wants to clean.
Before they were dating more seriously, my mom was pretty cool with me not wearing make up or doing my hair unless I was going out somewhere. But because HE WANTS ME TO AND CHEWS HER OUT FOR MY CHOICE IN NOT WEARING IT. I get screamed at and threatened and how I’m “Ungreatful”. Not cool on her part, but her boyfriend needs to back his shit off. He’s not my fucking dad, and even my own dad doesn’t give a fuck what I wear.
But yeah, my mom apologized to me today and even told me that I do a lot more than he gives me credit for.
So yeah... I’m not the problem.